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By Emy Hassan, Jun 21 2019 08:38PM

As you know if you’re one of my lovely loyal clients or you follow me on social media, modern hair systems can look absolutely gorgeous. They look just like your own hair and you can swim, go to the gym, sleep, shower in them, you name it.

But there are some differences between hair systems and your natural hair which you need to know about so you can keep your own system looking and feeling as amazing as the day it was fitted.

How a hair system differs from your natural hair

If you lose hair from your hair system, it won’t regrow

Unlike natural hair that usually grows back, once hair is gone from a hair system, it’s gone. This is why you have to follow my aftercare advice and have proper maintenance. You need to avoid things that cause hair loss and breakage as much as possible.

Your hair system won’t be protected by your scalp’s natural oils

The glands attached to your hair follicles make a natural oil called sebum which coats your hair and keeps it nourished and hydrated. Your hair system won’t have access to these natural oils so you need to keep it hydrated with conditioner and deep conditioning treatments.

My top tips for looking after your hair system


*Detangle hair with a wide-toothed comb or good quality hair brush. Start from the ends and work your way up.

*When you wash your hair, only use the recommended products

*Pat shampoo over your hair system rather than massaging it in which can cause tangling

*Use a deep conditioning treatment once per week to keep it hydrated

*Sleep with a 100% silk scarf on or on a silk pillowcase to prevent friction and breakage

*Sleep with hair tied back

*Learn some good blowdrying techniques to keep your system looking sleek


*Wash your hair system too often as this can dry it out

*Wash your hair system with hot water

*Rub your hair system when drying it with a towel, pat it dry instead

*Sleep with wet hair as this can cause matting

Expose your hair system to excessive sunlight, harsh chemicals, or chlorinated water. If you swim, use a leave-in product to protect your hair system and Malibu C swimmers products and then wash and condition it as soon as you get out of the pool. If you know you’re going to be spending a lot of time in the sun, wear a hat, or use products with added UV filters.

The important thing to remember is that your hair system is an investment so it makes sense to look after it. Natural hair can recover from chemical treatments, excessive heat styling, and other damage, hair systems can’t.

Do you want to start your journey to a hair loss solution?

If you are suffering from hair loss and the cause has been diagnosed by a doctor or trichologist, come and talk to us to find out how we can help.

We’ll discuss your hair loss and your options in a compassionate and understanding environment where your privacy is assured.

Contact us to book a consultation.

By Emy Hassan, Apr 28 2019 08:25PM

If you’re one of our regular customers, you’ll know that I have a lovely and talented assistant stylist working with me. Her name is Cara, and I thought I’d take the opportunity to introduce her in this blog. Here’s a little ‘get to know you’ Q & A, and if you want to know anything else, I’m sure she’ll be happy to tell you the next time she’s beautifying your hair in the salon…

Q: Did you always want to work with hair?

A: “ When I was little, I was always interested in hair and I had a doll’s head that I always played around with, trying out different hairstyles. When I finished school, it just felt like a natural next step to study hairdressing at college.”

Q: What do you love most about your job?

A: “I love making people happy with their finished look. There’s nothing like it. I like seeing people leaving the salon feeling confident, with a big smile on their face.”

Q: If you could give people suffering from hair loss one piece of advice, what would it be?

A: “When a client comes in to the salon, I would say don't worry about your hair loss because we can give you a hair replacement system that fits you and your lifestyle perfectly. We have a great range of hair loss solutions, so there’s always something that will work for you.”

Q: What do you think makes The Hair Confidante different from other places you’ve worked?

A: “The Hair Confidante is a specialist salon that offers a unique service. Our clients are loyal because we give personalised service, show compassion, and offer them complete privacy at all times. We listen to their concerns and we never judge. That’s not something you get at every salon.”

Q: What do you like to do in your spare time?

A: “ I love going to the cinema and going out with my friends.”

Q: Tell me something about you that not many people know.

A: “I was a Young Leading Girl in the brownies for 5 years. Ah, they were happy and much simpler times!”

Cara is a wonderfully talented stylist who loves what she does, and when she does you hair, you’ll see that it shows. If you like to book an appointment with her, click here. You won’t be disappointed.

By Emy Hassan, Mar 16 2019 08:59PM

Healthy hair grows from a healthy scalp, and if your scalp is not in good shape, you can’t expect your hair to be either.

Every single strand of your hair grows through a hair follicle which surfaces on the scalp. The sebaceous glands on the scalp produce oils which protect your hair and keep it hydrated. The problem is, sometimes the glands produce too much oil, and it builds up, along with dead skin and grime, and blocks the hair follicle. When hair follicles are blocked, healthy hair can’t grow from them, so it’s important that they’re kept clear. This is where scalp dermabrasion comes in.

What is scalp microdermabrasion?

Think of it as being like an exfoliating facial for the scalp. We use HairDreams Scalp Activator in the salon, which gently exfoliates the scalp, and gets rid of any build-up of oil, products, and dead skin so that healthier skin cells come to the surface, and hair follicles are unclogged. This means that healthy hair can start growing from the follicles again.

Can I have a Scalp DermaBrasion treatment?

The treatment is perfect for men and women whose hair problems stem from the condition of their scalp. It’s great for people who use hair fibers, spray-on scalp colour, or dry shampoo, as these products clog the follicles and prevent the hair from growing properly. If you do want to continue using these, having a regular dermabrasion treatment will make your scalp healthier.

If you have sores, tenderness of the scalp, or any rashes, this treatment is not suitable for you, and you should see your doctor or a trichologist for further treatment and advice.

What does the treatment involve?

The product is massaged gently into the scalp for around one minute, then it’s left on for about 10 minutes before it’s thoroughly rinsed off. Your hair is washed and styled as usual, and you should be able to feel and see the difference straight away!

How often should I have the treatment?

The treatment should be done every 30 days.

Quick tips for a healthy scalp

Eat a healthy diet

Healthy hair grows from a healthy scalp, but to have a healthy scalp, you need to be in good health overall. Eat a balanced diet, full of fruit, vegetables, lean protein, wholegrains, and healthy fats to make sure you’re getting all the nutrients you need. It might be a good idea to invest in a specific supplement for your hair as an insurance policy too.

Watch what you put on your scalp

Use a gentle shampoo that doesn’t contain harsh detergents that can irritate the scalp or silicones that can clog the hair follicles.

Is your scalp not as healthy as it could be?

Ask in salon about our scalp treatments. Whether your scalp is dry, oily, or flaky, we have a treatment that can restore it, and your hair, back to health.

By Emy Hassan, Dec 19 2018 09:38PM

As many of you who have done your hair replacement system training with us will know, you get to spend a day with the lovely Stephanie Moore, a very passionate trichologist who aims to bust all of the myths about hair loss. But what is a trichologist and why it is so important that our learners work with her? We asked Stephanie to answer these questions and more for our latest blog.

The Hair Confidante (THC): What is trichology?

Stephanie Moore (SM): “Trichology is the scientific study of hair and scalp disorders and physiology. To be a qualified and registered trichologist, you have to study a specific scientific programme covering a diverse range of subjects from nutrition and genetics to microbiology ,and you have to abide by a strict code of ethics.

Trichologists aren’t medically qualified, but they’re specially trained to evaluate all the underlying factors that contribute to a hair loss or scalp condition and give appropriate evidence-based advice about treatment options. This might include telling a patient they need to be referred to a medical professional for further evaluation. “

THC: What made you become a trichologist?

SM: “I began my career as a hairdresser and moved into teaching hairdressing. I became a trichologist because I’ve seen a lot of people suffer from hair or scalp problems over the years and they had no idea what it was or why it was happening. I wanted to be able to answer my students’ or clients’ questions when they asked me. There are so many myths flying around about hair loss in the hairdressing industry, and I wanted to become a trichologist to find out the truth and help other people. I now teach at the Institute of Trichologists in London, as well as having my own clinic in Surrey.”

THC: Did you always know that this was what you wanted to do?

SM: “When I was doing my hairdressing qualification, I remember learning about something called ‘Trichology’ and I started to look into it. I think it was always in the back of my mind as a natural career progression. It’s a great career and I love sharing my knowledge and helping people. There’s always new research being published so it’s exciting to always be updating my knowledge. I was very proud to win the ‘Outstanding Trichologist – Newcomer Award’ at the Hair Science Awards this year and I definitely feel I’ve found the correct career path for me!”

THC: What are the most common reasons people visit a trichologist?

SM: “I see all sorts of hair and scalp conditions and I think people always know when something is not right, so they come to me for answers and reassurance. Two people might have exactly the same condition, but the causes can vary so widely, and this is what makes hair loss such an interesting and specialist area. Hair loss isn’t usually life-threatening, but it can cause a great deal of distress. The hair has the second fastest cell growth in the body and it’s a non-essential tissue, so it’s often the first place to display signs of deficiency or disease, if you know what you are looking for! A trichologist takes a personalised holistic approach when treating hair loss and scalp conditions, rather than ‘one size fit’s all’.”

THC: What is the question you get asked most often by patients?

SM: “When people see a huge amount of their hair falling out it’s hard for them to believe that they won’t end up completely bald, so the question I probably get asked the most is ‘Am I going to lose all my hair…?’

But the fact is there are many types of hair loss, and only a limited number of them result in complete hair loss or ‘alopecia totalis’. It’s often a huge relief to people when I can explain the mystery of what has caused their hair loss and suggest a solution. Even in cases where hair loss is very extensive or irreversible, there are excellent options for camouflage, such as hair replacement systems that really help people to regain their confidence.”

THC: What would be your number one piece of advice for someone who is suffering from hair loss?

SM: “Make sure you have a diagnosis from a qualified Trichologist or Dermatologist so you know what you are dealing with and how best to treat it. This will save you time, money and anxiety when the next ‘miracle cure’ does not work. Your hair loss may be caused by something as simple as an iron deficiency! Hair loss is a symptom not a diagnosis, so don’t be dismissed or fobbed off if you know something isn’t quite as it should be.”

THC: People who train in hair replacement systems with The Hair Confidante spend time with you as part of their course. Why is this so important?

SM: “Anyone working in the hair loss industry needs to be aware of what condition their client has, because hair loss replacement systems will not be suitable for everyone. This needs to be recognised across the industry, so stylists can professionally and ethically offer clients the correct advice. It’s also important that if stylists are dealing with a client whose problem hasn’t been diagnosed, they signpost them to where they can get a diagnosis and find out about all of the treatment options available to them. I’ve found that all the people I have met who trained with The Hair Confidante had a lot of compassion for their clients and wanted to do things the right way.”

If you would like help or advice about your hair or scalp condition, you can contact Stephanie at or on 07751 553234 or 01372 270790.

You can also visit her website at

By Emy Hassan, Oct 23 2018 09:56PM

As well as providing high-quality hair replacement and hair extension services to clients, I also train hairdressers and extensionists in hair replacement systems and extensions. For women, In particular, the hair is a symbol of feminity and beauty, and it’s tied up with self-esteem, so when they lose their hair, it can be devastating and it really affects their confidence.

These ladies are going through a very tough time emotionally, and there’s a definite need

for hair replacement services that are not only high-quality, but that offer them the empathy and privacy that they need.

What qualities do you need to be a hair replacement specialist?

The first thing I would say is that you need to have empathy for what these ladies are going through. Helping them get their confidence back should be your passion, it shouldn’t be about making money. Clients should never feel taken advantage of and you should treat everyone who walks through your doors with the same levels of respect and discretion. Remember that by the time they come to you, they’ve probably exhausted a lot of other options.

My hair replacement courses

I pride myself offering some of the most in-depth and informative hair replacement courses that you’ll find anywhere. I don’t offer courses that claim to teach you multiple methods in one day, as I don’t believe that anyone could feel confident on how to fit a hair system safely and correctly after that amount of time. I’ve had to retrain people who have gone on bogus 1-day courses where they have come away with nothing and didn’t feel confident enough to fit a hair system.

On one of my courses, you’ll be in a class of no more than 3 people so that everyone gets the best out of their learning. I spend as much time as you need on one method until you’re 100% confident in your skills, then you’ll get to work on real clients. You’ll get to spend a day with Stephanie Moore, a trichologist who teaches at the Institute of Trichology, and you can come back and shadow me whenever you like. Every course is a completely rewarding and immersive experience.

Courses I offer

The Integrated Enhancer

Our Integrated Enhancer course is a 5-day course with theory and practical elements and 2 days of assessments on real clients in a salon environment. You must be at least a level 2 qualified hairdresser and should have experience in fitting hair extensions such as micro rings. If you don’t have experience in doing hair extensions, I’d suggest you take our 1-day course in micro ring extensions.

Micro Parting System

The Micro Parting system was designed by us for people with fine hair or parting thinning. This system is unique to our brand and our trainee partner salons. You must be at least a level 2 hairdresser with competency in hair extensions.

Clip on Hair Topper

This 2-day course will teach you how to remove and clip in hair pieces. You’ll learn how to make a custom-made ventilated topper and also a quick fix topper with a bespoke base. This course is an excellent add-on for any hair replacement specialist, and it will be especially useful when you work with clients who don’t want to wear a permanent hair replacement piece, but still require coverage on the top of the scalp.

Hair Extensions

Tape Hair Extensions

This 1- day course will cover a full head application and removal of Tape hair extensions. You will learn vital placements for a natural look and flow of the hair, and different colour combinations to create different tones and highlights/lowlights. You will also learn how tape extensions can be great for people with extremely fine hair and how to keep them lightweight. This is a fully- accredited course and you must be at least a minimum level 2 hairdresser to take part.

Micro ring Extensions

This 1-day course will cover a full head application and removal of Micro ring hair extensions as well as mini tip extensions. You’ll learn how to attach and place the extensions safely and correctly, as well as how to place colours for multiple shades. The course also covers hair extension maintenance and removal. This is a fully -accredited course and you must be at least a level 2 hairdresser to take part.

Do you want to train with The Hair Confidante?

You can find more information on my hair replacement and extension courses on my training page or you can contact me directly to apply.

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